Lost in the Messy Middle? Get Unstuck & Find Yourself Again
Turns out, self-care is more than just candles and crying in the tub…
🔥 Get REAL Self-Care ... for When Life Feels Like a Dumpster Fire 🔥
When life knocks you so far sideways that a bubble bath won’t fix it, this Soul-Care Checklist will help you navigate the chaos without losing yourself in the smoke…
(with grounded strategies & powerful practices to bring clarity and calm—even when everything feels out of control.)
Your Transformation Starts Here—How to Get Back on Track After a Big Change
You had a plan. And then—your life tipped upside-down.
Betrayal. Grief. Relationship upheaval. A dream that no longer fits. Being uprooted from everything familiar. Soul-shaking truths.
Whatever it is for you, I know it’s gut-wrenching.
Now, you’re flailing, trying to grab onto something solid, and lost in a life that no longer feels like yours.
One minute, you were fine. The next, everything slipped through your fingers.
Now, you’re caught in the messy middle, wondering:
💔 Will I ever feel like myself again? 💔
I see you.
You spent years being the strong one—holding everything together.
But this? This is HARD.
Maybe you woke up one day realizing your life was built around other people’s expectations…
Or maybe everything came crashing down overnight.
Either way, you’re here now—stripped raw, questioning everything, wondering where to even begin.
And then there’s that voice in your head, whispering:
“You should have figured this out by now. You should be able to handle this on your own.”
But here’s the truth: You are NOT failing.
You are simply in the messy middle of transformation—and it’s okay to not have all the answers yet.
Just because you’ve always been the strong one doesn’t mean you have to do this alone.
You are NOT alone.
Every great heroine has a moment where everything falls apart—where she questions who she is and how she’ll ever find her way again.
But she doesn’t do it alone.
She has allies, mentors, guides.
And so do you.
You don’t have to carry this all by yourself.
So if you are ...
🔹 Asking the Big Questions—”Who AM I?” and “Why am I here?”—while side-eyeing time because the only thing slowing down is your metabolism…
🔹 Binge-watching all three seasons of A Discovery of Witches: unraveling ancient mysteries feels SO much easier than sorting out your own life!!
🔹 Replaying every life choice like it’s a binge-worthy drama series…
I can help
I guide you through the sacred alchemy of transformation—helping you unravel old conditioning, embrace the messy middle, and reclaim the wild, unshakable truth of who you are.
🧘♀️ …without joining an Ashram, or hiking the whole Pacific Crest Trail. 🥾
(Although if you want to launch a full-scale Barbie Movie-style takedown of the patriarchy, or an Elphaba-inspired revolt against the status quo, I’ll be your Battle Bard!)
Meet Your Guide …
Hi, I'm Kristin.
Transformation Coach. Trauma-informed Holistic Practitioner.
Intuitive Soul Guide.
Meantime Mentor.
Practical-Magick Emissary.
Playful Priestess. Fur Mama. Rebel Witch. Activist.
Storyteller. Book lover. Tree Hugger.
And the survivor of more than one life-shaking change.
My personal journeys through grief, shame, despair, trauma, and loss—plus a decade of experience guiding other women—have revealed something powerful:
Just like the heroines in your favorite stories…
the “meantime” is where courage is forged, confidence takes root, and you can lean into the storm to harness its power.
But … it sucks to go through this hard stuff alone.
That’s where I come in.

💖 A Little Client Love 💖
“Working with Kristin has been one of the best gifts I’ve ever received. Six months ago, difficult decisions and life’s uncertainties made my head spin. With the tools I’ve developed… I’ve attained an inner calm and strength in the knowledge that I am enough.
Thank you Kristin, it truly is a treat and a gift to work with you.”
More Client Love
You and your heart certainly changed my life. I rarely feel physical anxiety anymore, where when I first called you, I was living in a constant state of anxiety and chest pain and confusion.
I know that I wouldn’t be at peace with my choice if it wasn’t for my meetings with Kristin. I found my voice and it feels good.
I walked away from my time with Kristin with new awareness of my self worth, clarity in who I am, better centeredness, and more energy to put behind my determination to make a difference.
Leaning In ...? Let’s Find Out if We’re a Match.
We'll Blend Like Peanut Butter and Dark Chocolate if You ...
Followed the rules, did what was expected—but deep down, you always felt there was something more.
Are done with the hustle, the pressure, the never-ending “more” because you yearn for a different way—one that’s rich in joy, presence, and deep alignment.
Know that success isn’t just about achievement—it’s about impact, meaning, and a better world … one that’s more just, kind, and sustainable.
Are ready to stop shrinking and start reclaiming all the parts of yourself you were told were too much, not enough, or unworthy—and bring them home where they belong.
Balance skepticism with soul-seeking— you’re drawn to the mystery of transformation but hunger for practical tools that actually work.
Want a guide who brings both wisdom and humor—someone who sees your wholeness, holds space for your becoming, and isn’t afraid to laugh along the way.
What I Actually DO—And How It Changes Everything
You’ve read the words transformation, messy middle, and reclaiming your magick—but what does that actually mean? What do I DO? And more importantly—how can I HELP you?
Here’s the simplest way to put it:
🔹 I hold space in the storm. Unlike most coaches who focus on the “after” of transformation, I meet you in the thick of it—when everything is crumbling and clarity feels impossible.
🔹 I don’t push past the hard parts. This isn’t about “just think positive.” We honor the grief, the rage, the uncertainty—because alchemy happens when you don’t skip steps.
🔹 I blend science, nature, and soul. This isn’t fluff. It’s neuroscience, depth psychology, nervous system repair, and ritual, woven into a deeply embodied, intuitive process.
✨ This is your alchemy—your becoming. Are you ready to reclaim it?
📍 Curious about the full journey? [Click here] to explore my signature framework—or keep reading to find the option that fits you best.
Choose Your Next Step

Signature Coaching Program
🪄 1:1 Coaching for Deep, Lasting Transformation.
Through four alchemical phases, modeled after the rhythms of nature, we’ll uncover what’s holding you back, reclaim your true essence, and help you weave lasting change into your life. With personalized guidance every step of the way, you’ll receive powerful rituals, intuitive tools, and unwavering support to rebuild your life, reclaim your power, and reignite your spark.

DIY Tools and Support
🌿 Bite-Sized Transformations for Your Journey
These self-paced, transformative tools are designed to meet you where you are, providing practical rituals and powerful insights to guide you toward lasting change. Whether you need a quick reset or a gentle nudge toward deeper growth, these offerings give you the resources to shift, heal, and evolve on your own terms.

Retreats and Intensives
❄️🌿 Immersive Retreats & Intensives
Step away from the noise and dive deep into transformation. These intimate, nature-infused experiences combine ritual, creativity, and deep connection to help you reconnect with your essence and reclaim your spark. Whether a weekend retreat or an intensive, you’ll leave feeling renewed and aligned with your authentic power.
✨ Coming Soon…